Feelings after Roka

The feeling of isolating yourself & going through everything by yourself 😥 You’re strong as hell, here’s your reminder - cause probably no one told you that. You’re strong, I see you! 🙌🏻 . I still remember watching Dear Zindagi & not being able to really understand what really is going on with Kaira. & it’s just that, these are emotions no one will ever understand until faced by themselves. My heart goes out for Kaira every time I come across any Dear Zindagi edits, movie snippets, re-watching the movie itself. It’s not easy to not only understand her situation, but also relate to it 💔 For those who still don’t understand, depression/mental illness is real, and it’s no joke. We’re not seeking for any attention. We’re not feeling okay, we can’t sleep, we get frustrated easily, we can’t cope up with life, we stay in bed cause getting up & facing the world feels way too difficult, we have random breakdowns - none of which is in our control 😓 Sometimes it’s not just a ...

Jab hum apne aap ko achi tarah samajh lete hain toh dusre kya samajhte hain, it doesn't matter, not at all." Oftentimes, the fear of being judged by others cages us and keeps us away from living life wholeheartedly. There are so many decisions that we refrain from taking because we burden ourselves with the respnosiblity of becoming the apple of everyone's eye. What we forget is that people tend to have different perspectives and what is right from our viewpoint may be wrong from someone else's. So, we shouldn't let that sort of insecurity torment us. We often lived with the fear of being judged because we thought that getting into more than one relationship will give people the opportunity to point fingers at her. When we were given the chair example, we wished everyone else heard that too so that we could live without the fear of being judged. But it wasn't necessary for people to believe what we believed. Sometimes life taught us on how everything becomes wo...