Feelings
Jab hum apne aap ko achi tarah samajh lete hain toh dusre kya samajhte hain, it doesn't matter, not at all."
Oftentimes, the fear of being judged by others cages us and keeps us away from living life wholeheartedly. There are so many decisions that we refrain from taking because we burden ourselves with the respnosiblity of becoming the apple of everyone's eye. What we forget is that people tend to have different perspectives and what is right from our viewpoint may be wrong from someone else's. So, we shouldn't let that sort of insecurity torment us.
We often lived with the fear of being judged because we thought that getting into more than one relationship will give people the opportunity to point fingers at her. When we were given the chair example, we wished everyone else heard that too so that we could live without the fear of being judged. But it wasn't necessary for people to believe what we believed. Sometimes life taught us on how everything becomes worthwhile once we stop caring about changing others and focus on ourselves instead.
We cannot waste our life just because someone else fails to understand it. We can continue to understand ourselves and take decisions. People judging you from a distance don't have the slightest idea of what all you've been through and why you are the way you are. But you do. You know what battles your past self fought that nudged you towards becoming who you are today. So, the only person you owe an explanation to is yourself. You cannot please everyone and frankly speaking, you don't need to. So, instead of grumbling about people making your life tedious, make your life easy by not allowing their judgements to cage you.
Oftentimes, the fear of being judged by others cages us and keeps us away from living life wholeheartedly. There are so many decisions that we refrain from taking because we burden ourselves with the respnosiblity of becoming the apple of everyone's eye. What we forget is that people tend to have different perspectives and what is right from our viewpoint may be wrong from someone else's. So, we shouldn't let that sort of insecurity torment us.
We often lived with the fear of being judged because we thought that getting into more than one relationship will give people the opportunity to point fingers at her. When we were given the chair example, we wished everyone else heard that too so that we could live without the fear of being judged. But it wasn't necessary for people to believe what we believed. Sometimes life taught us on how everything becomes worthwhile once we stop caring about changing others and focus on ourselves instead.
We cannot waste our life just because someone else fails to understand it. We can continue to understand ourselves and take decisions. People judging you from a distance don't have the slightest idea of what all you've been through and why you are the way you are. But you do. You know what battles your past self fought that nudged you towards becoming who you are today. So, the only person you owe an explanation to is yourself. You cannot please everyone and frankly speaking, you don't need to. So, instead of grumbling about people making your life tedious, make your life easy by not allowing their judgements to cage you.
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